Q: How can I let a babysitter put my kids down to bed? I just haven't been able to let this happen.
A: First, you need to find a babysitter that you trust and that likes kids.
Second, you need to just do it and let what happens happen- babysitters are quite a blessing- you need to be able to go out with spouse, friends...
Third, you need to prepare your children for the babysitter- explain your expectations of them and what the night will look like for them (if they are at the appropriate age for such an explanation- otherwise skip this step).
Fourth, write out directions for your babysitter and your phone number (add tips like how the baby likes to be put down- they are not going to know these things. May even want to add things like don't put them down on their tummy- if the baby doesn't do this.)
Fifth, go over these verbally with the babysitter- show them where things are- paci, swaddling blanket, PJs, etc. Show them how to do anything they have questions about- they may be nervous about asking questions so be attentive to that. Also, you may want to do somethings for them- close the blinds, turn on noise makers, put out water cups, put out toothbrushes...
Sixth, go, have fun. And when you get back don't be cheap paying them- you want them to come back.
Seventh, reuse the good babysitters, get rid of the bad ones. It is nice when a babysitter starts to learn your routines and your kids like the consistency. We have a few favorite babysitters- and my kids love them, they know our routines, and my kids listen to them- even about bedtime. They do a great job!!
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